The Truth Revealed

Girls haven’t you always wondered what goes down at bachelor parties, especially when your boyfriend and friends come back with their little jokes which they won’t let me in on.

I found cosmo’s “10 Things You Didn't Know About Bachelor Parties” which I thought all you girls would find interesting.

Bachelor-party strippers say it's not the groom-to-be who usually cheats. His married friends are more likely to cross that line.

If the bachelor party has strippers, it's not necessarily because that's what the groom wants. "The groom is actually kind of being held prisoner and just trying to get through it," says David Boyer, author of Bachelor Party Confidential. The groom's friends are more likely the ones who wanted a show.

The best way to keep your guy from cheating at a bachelor party is to give him the go-ahead for guys' nights year-round. "The more you try to cage that animal, the more he wants to get out," Boyer says.

A groom-to-be might answer his fiancée's questions honestly, but he won't volunteer incriminating or embarrassing information. What if you want the full story? "Ask more probing questions," says Tom Nardone, president of Bachelorette.com

Yes, guys often lie (at least by omission) about what really went down at the party — it's part of the night's code of secrecy. The lies usually aren't huge, but they can be. (For instance, one group threw regular bachelor parties even though none of their friends were getting married.)

Read more: What Happens at Bachelor Parties - Cosmopolitan
SOURCE: David Boyer, author of Bachelor Party Confidential

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