Master The Art Of Seduction...

The art of seducing a woman is not a hard one to learn, you just have to know when to apply it and how. To most men the mystery of seducing a woman is an impossible one to solve. Men can win arguments, they can drive fast cars, they can get worked up in minutes... but when it comes to seducing woman, uhm it’s not that easy they get confused, stutter and well lose the ball.

Yes some man may be certain with their ideas on how to seduce woman or boast with to their friends about how many woman they can get, yeah yeah but as they say action speaks louder than words. When it comes to putting that plan into action it turns out to be much more difficult game to play than it is to commentate. You can go on and on about how your friend can play the game if you can’t play the game yourself player shout up and let me teach you a thing or two about the art of seducing a woman, then you can go and share it with your boys!

The general idea of seducing a woman is to win her over and not to brag, make her feel cosy around you and work your magic to the peak. Assembling comfort helps her loosen up and you empower her to kick off the closeness and freely choose your advances.

Remember though that those advances do not necessarily have to be about convincing her to take off her clothes, well at least not as soon as you win her over. In the art of becoming a successful seducer you think about the end results and are not controlled by the moment, freeze the moment for later and get on with an encounter you will both enjoy.

Seducing a woman comes with an understanding of certain things; firstly you must believe that in this game only the best player wins, so if your seducing skills don’t flatter her consider yourself out of the game in the first half.

Work on your speech:

When you come up to a woman, you need to know that she makes guesses by the way you talk to her. Women have a tendency to pin point and focus on everything you say, she looks at you up and down to grasp everything you say and read your body language. Women make conclusions on a variety of topics like whether you have the ability to make her laugh, make her feel comfortable, or whether she can trust you or not.

Take it easy and have patience:

Seduction like any other goal you plan on achieving requires endurance and determination. A woman will look at the level of your patience when you can listen to her blab on and on without complaining. She will also judge you on how you read her body language and your skill in interpreting her inviting signs. If you are full of yourself, you might as well prepare yourself for rejection. Women love men who can understand their needs and go out of their way to fulfill them. Once you are successful in figuring out what she needs, you would get what you want from her.

Centre your mind on the process and not the end result:

Man are no doubt sex thinking machines, day and night, don’t try to deny it , women understand its part of your nature. However, the fact is that you tend to take no notice of ways to find a woman to have sex with. The reason is that you tend to focus only on the end result but not on the process. This will not work. You need to make the right efforts in this regard. You need to make her feel special via uttering the right words at the appropriate time. Women can’t resist great conversations. Therefore, if you can act as a good conversationalist, you can turn her on with your magical words, to seduce her.

Great convo, great sex:

woman and man are turned on by completely different things. Guys are more visual than women, if a guy sees a hot girl walk by just by visualising how good she’d be at attending to his wants. However it takes much more than that to start a woman’s engine, you need to stimulate her mind first before moving to her body. Also bear in mind that the words you utter have a great impact on her sexual desire. Sometimes sultry word act as a means to arouse a woman you are dating. But remember, dirty words always work with a woman you are already comfortable with having sex, as they work as catalyst not the core compound.

The point is to understand is that women love to talk and you need to use the control of words in order to seduce her. You can’t just impress a woman with how many zeros you have on your bank statement or expensive cars that you own. Focus on what you converse, use simple yet effective words on her, speak with style and classiness and you will have your woman. You need to excel in the art of conversation to make a woman, all yours. In short, the first step is knowing how to talk to a woman in order to charm her. This will help you in having great sex with her. Happy hunting, don’t forget only the best player wins!

Article by: Nokuthula Khanyile