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Dating advices for women could be written on a bible-size book, but this article will give you eight essential rules that will cover almost every aspect of being in a relationship. It doesn’t matter whether you are a pro or an amateur; it’s all about being true to yourself, being honest and kind to both of you.
Basically, it’s not about how hard you try but it is more about how smart and intelligent you conduct yourself in a relationship. Here is some sound dating advice for women in order to avoid complications and to make things go more smoothly.
Don’t talk about your last boyfriend, fiancé or husband on the first few dates. Men immediately think one of two things if you talk about your ex during a date; either you’re still hung up on him or you’re bitter and angry about being dumped.
For a single woman, dating advice should probably be more complex than that, but really it all boils down to those two words: "Be yourself." Don’t pull out all the stops by being a sex kitten if that’s not who you are. By doing so you’ll only get yourself stuck in a role that will increasingly frustrate you, and eventually he’ll see through the charade and be offended by your dishonesty.
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Even if you sense that he’s got great potential early on, don’t start talking about your future dreams of marriage and family right away. The most often overlooked dating advice for women is usually the most crucial and that is men generally take things slower. They don’t want to be considered as potential life partners after date number two.
You’d be surprised how often men complain that women can’t take a compliment properly. If he tells you that you look wonderful, a simple, "Thank you," is the right response. Don’t try to go into details about your outfit that will ruin the compliment. He really doesn’t want the details of how or why you look great, but he will appreciate being thanked for noticing that you do. Accepting a compliment means you are self-confident and comfortable with yourself.
This is great dating advice for women and men. Whether you’re meeting a man at some place or he’s picking you up, it’s thoughtless to keep him waiting, and it doesn’t build anticipation. It just makes you seem rude.
Men quickly get bored with women who always agree with everything they say. Sure, it may be flattering to the ego for a bit, but that soon fades to boredom and/or irritation when they realize they can’t sustain an intelligent conversation with you. Stand firm on issues that are important to you, discuss events honestly but don’t get into an argument just to prove that you’re right. Disagreeing on some things is what adds spice to a relationship, as long as the disagreements aren’t moral or life-changing.
Men like to know they’re interesting, but they don’t want to be nagged into dating you. Can you call a man a few days after a date and thank him for a nice evening and chat? Sure! But don’t call the next day, then the next, then the next. Just leave one message, if he’s interested, he’ll call you back. It may take some few days before he gets back to you, he could be busy or just nervous. If he is not interested, then increasingly desperate and tons of messages from you won’t make a difference.
You are on a date, not at a therapy session. Spilling your guts about how much your mother drives you crazy and why you want to kill your boss will not endear you to a man who had hopes of enjoying a relaxing evening with you. Should you hope that a relationship includes friendship? Yes! But don’t treat a man you’ve recently started dating like your old college roommate or priest. Serious and personal conversations are not good for a premature relationship, and lots of complaining gives the impression that nothing will make you happy in your life.
The above advice is just the gist of sustaining and maturing a good relationship with your partner regardless of whether he is your first or tenth date. You can use it as a start to make your relationships better.
Article Courtesy Of:Buzzle
Article by: Nduduzo Ndlovu
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