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So your date with ‘the hottest guy in the entire universe’ is over and he invites you to his place for a ‘cup of coffee’. You now have to decide whether to go with him or not, and you decide to go to his place. There’s no harm in that right? At his place things get hot and steamy without even getting to the coffee. You are now about to rip each other’s clothes off and go all the way. But wait! Do you honestly want to have sex with a guy on a first date?
Think about it now girlfriend! What would your parents say? They didn’t raise you to carry yourself in this manner. What about your girlfriends? They wouldn’t approve of you giving it up to a guy on a first date. One night stands never look good and are disastrous, even with the ‘hottest guy in the entire universe’.
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One night stands are mostly just ways of setting yourself up for heartbreak and disappointment. That night could be the last time you ever hear or even see this guy. Just imagine the conversations he might be having with his friends about how he got into your pants on the first date. Do you really want to put yourself through that heartache and trauma?
You may think men don’t judge women that sleep with them on the first date, but you will be surprised to know that they actually lose respect for you and don’t like easy women. Honestly speaking, it seems immoral and inappropriate to sleep with someone on a first date, whether you are a guy or girl. Carrying yourself this way is not cool and it is a big deal.
So how long should you wait? Wait until you are ready. If you are a virgin, don’t let yourself be pressured into it or fall for the guy’s charm. Have fun together and get to know each before you even consider sleeping together. You can play the waiting game even if you are a teenager or an adult. Patience has its virtues and rewards. So go on and wait, trust me it will be more than worth it in the end.
After a couple of dates and when you know that you are now in a relationship, you can consider the next step and be sexually intimate. But you must remember to take things slow and don’t crowd the guy. Spend time with each other, but don’t be together all the time. You must still be able to have you own separate lives, only time will tell if you both have a future together, and if it’s love. For now just take things as they come and enjoy the moment. You never know, he just might be your soul mate, so you don’t want to scare him off.
Article By: Nadia Khan
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